Bring the Love to Your Bedroom
How to bring the love into your bedroom? We’re not talking red candles, heart-shaped water beds or satin sheets. (Did those things ever really work?) There are more subtle ways to transform it into a place that invites lingering and take your bedroom from simple to sensual…
Make your bedroom a stress-free zone for you and yours and a place for intimate moments. A comfortable, quality mattress is a first requirement. Do your homework and remind yourself at the time of purchase that this is where you spend one-third of your life! The bed is the major piece of furniture with all the rest secondary. Reduce the clutter and increase romance with restraint.
Choose luxury bedding to aid your sleep. Research tells us that we sleep better when surrounded in comfort and high thread count sheets provide a soft crispness that welcomes us. Quality bedding also enhances the appearance of our bedroom. Personally, I like white for sheets as it feels cleaner. Flashy does not equal elegant.
Lighting and liberal use of dimmers allows you to set the mood. The soft shadows from lamps and chandeliers adds to the overall ambiance in the evening hours. During daytime, I prefer my rooms filled with light. Comfortable light filled rooms shape natural, classic surroundings.
I use room darkening window treatments to aid sleep for my clients in their bedrooms. The draperies keep the outside world from intruding on private time. If your home includes small children or frequent guests, consider a lock on the bedroom door to maintain your privacy.
Soft colors in a neutral palette flatter skin tones such as peach, rose, greige. Avoid green and yellow as they compete with our natural skin tones in uncomplimentary ways.
Set the mood with music and establish a ritual of a favorite soundtrack. It will soothe you as you enter the bedroom and set the stage for what follows. And don’t neglect scents. Treat yourself to fresh flowers once a week or month. Use scented candles or quality incense and find a scent that appeals to you personally. Not too sharp but instead soothing and relaxing.
Remember our bedroom is our personal sanctuary. It is OUR place for rest, relaxation, pampering, contemplation and our place to be private. Make it all that it should be and bring the love to your bedroom.
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